Here is a great post by Micheal Lawrence called Stop Test-Driving Your Girlfriend. He addresses the change that many men need to make in their “wife-search.” He turns the tables on looking for a wife to becoming the man that will honour and cherish a wife. I remember my friend Steve saying much the same thing to me 20 years ago: “Craig, you need to ask yourself, ‘Am I becoming the man that demonstrates the values, character, and faith that I want my wife to possess.” That simple comment redirected the way I thought about marraige. Anyway, here is the article. It is well worth the read.